Scorpios asn Friends and Lovers

What to expect in a relationship with a scorpio

Being the eighth sign of the zodiac, Scorpio is ruled primarily by Pluto with Mars as the co- ruler. According to the astrological make-up, Scorpio is a negative water sign. Scorpios are very emotional people who are capable of feeling all kinds of positive and negative emotions with great intensity. That means whether they love or hate they will do so with intensity, passionately or bitterly as the case may be. If you capture the love of a Scorpio, you will find he will be very intense and passionate when it concerns loved ones there is no middle ground for this sign. One thing you must be careful of, however, is Scorpios can be extremely jealous and exhibit bitterness toward their rivals and those they perceive to be enemies.

One thing about a Scorpio that many people will find difficult to handle is their tendency to hide their real motives and agendas from the people around them. They also have a need to be in control all the time. If you are the type of person who also needs to be in control, you will have a difficult time building a relationship of any kind with a Scorpio, romantic or otherwise. You will find you will need to step down off your pedestal so to speak and allow your Scorpio to take charge of the situation at all times. Do not think at any time you will be able to convince a Scorpio you can take care of things better because this is the quickest way to lose any kind of relationship with a Scorpio.

Scorpios also have the innate ability to understand how the human mind works and know immediately why an individual is talking or acting in a certain way. Some people may find this irritating or even scary to think someone can look through them and know some of the things that are on their minds. While this trait can certainly be scary to those who do not understand it, there are times when it can be quite useful. Think of those times when you feel a certain way and dont understand why: the ability of a Scorpio to define those emotions can certainly help you overcome them and move past them.

Scorpios have an immense fear of failure both in their personal and professional relationships. They will attempt to avoid any kind of failure by setting goals that are realistic, tangible and short-term. They will work toward each goal one at a time and avoid moving on to any other goals until they accomplish what the first ones. While this is something many people other than Scorpios tend to do, the trait is very common among Scorpios because of not only their fear of failure but because they are highly ambitious and power hungry. Working on one goal at a time will help them arrive where they want to be without fear of failure. However, remember, you may take second place to the ambitions of Scorpions. They have the ability to work incessantly with no break until they achieve what they want.

The fierce desire of Scorpio to succeed in both business and personal relationships creates a fierce and ruthless nature when they are faced with competition. Their sharp memories can help

your ducks in a row, dont start an argument with Scorpio because you will lose the fight every time and end up looking foolish in the process. Being able to develop any kind of relationship with a Scorpio professional, personal or romantic requires a great deal of self-control and the ability to handle their lack of pleasure when they are faced with competition at any point in their lives. They will go to any lengths to win and do not have a problem harming or manipulating anyone who gets in the way of them achieving their goals.

Whether you are in a relationship with a Scorpio professionally or personally, its important to understand their need to be in control and their ambitious natures. Getting along with a Scorpio means you may need to make some concessions in order to maintain a friendship or romance with this fixed water sign. Remember, Scorpio is quite capable of living alone and is very independent; do not make the mistake of thinking if you just walk away he will change his min and let you have your way he will not care and will not fall for your attempts to manipulate him into doing something he doesnt want to do. In fact, this type of manipulation will drive him away from you forever.

Another thing you do not want to do is attempt to make a Scorpio jealous. They are very jealous by nature when it comes to their loved ones whether friends or a lover. They can be very ruthless when you put them on the spot and force them to fight for what they consider rightfully theirs. This is also another way to lose your Scorpio forever because he will see it as another form of manipulation or your attempt at gaining control over him, something he will not allow. Scorpio can be your best friend or your worst enemy, and much of the direction the relationship takes will depend on you allowing Scorpio to maintain control.

One of the things you probably want to avoid at all costs is attempting to compete with a Scorpio professionally and still maintain a personal relationship. Remember, Scorpio is very ambitious and will do anything necessary to push away the competition, and that includes eliminating friends he sees as detrimental to his achievements. If you work for the same company, you do not want to work in the same department if you also have aspirations for success because you will need to choose between your friendship or romance with the Scorpio and your promotion.

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