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It's never easy breaking up with anyone. It's even harder to break up with a water sign mostly because of the drama. The Scorpio is not the martyr type, they will not sit down and take whatever you throw at him / her. They want things done their way so you can just imagine how they will react after you tell them you want to take off. There are two ways you could try when breaking up with the mysterious Scorpio. You could either tell them straight up or let them realize on their own that the relationship is going downhill.
The first one is obvious. Just tell your Scorpio partner it's not working out for you. Don't expect them to take it lightly, though. They are subjective and you can be sure he / she will demand an explanation but won't necessarily accept it whether it's valid or not. During this time make sure that you say what you need to say before they open their mouths or else risk being seduced back into their arms. Great sex is one of the biggest reasons why people stick with Scorpios so beware. They might use this to make you stop talking even before you've started. It is best if you can leave after you say it because staying longer could mean they can throw questions and words and reasons for you to eventually retract your original intentions. If they are angry there is very much a chance they will pick a fight no matter where you are. Tell Scorpio he / she knows where to find you or how to contact you incase they want to talk further but pray the won't. Even after this conversation you can expect them to turn up on your doorstep armed (with their charm and sexual prowess) and dangerous.
The other one may be a bit harder but it might work better than telling them you want quits. It might take a bit longer, though. Making them realize your relationship is coming to an end may lead the Scorpio to end the relationship themselves. If they do this they will think it is their decision in the first place so you don't owe them anything. How do you do this? You can start by acting weird. Don't be cold or indifferent. Scorpios hate being ignored and this will only push them to be angry at you and you don't want an angry Scorpio for an ex. Just be vague about things and make them feel you want to take over some things in your life. Scorpios love being in charge. Another way is to make your sex life routinely or boring. This might be hard because they're very sexually challenging but if you're already set to breaking up with them then you need to either resist their advances or make them feel like you're a boring partner in bed. Scorpios want their lovemaking passionate and wild and if they find you boring, they will start to look for something (or someone) that can satisfy them.
One tip, if you are married, make sure you have something written and notarized by a lawyer about how you'll split up your properties. Scorpios can be vindictive and you may end up in a messy situation with them with regards to your finances if you don't do the break up thing properly.
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